Pamela L. Wilder

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Contact Information

Location: Fort Worth, Texas
Fax: 817-336-4448
Email: Email Me

Areas of Practice

Child Custody
Child Support
Property Division
Spousal Maintenance
Child Support Enforcement
Writ of Habeus Corpus
Terminations/Step-parent Adoptions

Bar Admissions

Texas, 2006
Oklahoma, 1992-1996


University of San Diego School of Law, J.D.
UCLA, BA in Psychology


State Bar of Texas, 2006-present
Tarrant County Family Law Bar Association, 2009-present


Fort Worth Texas Magazine
Top Attorney—Family Law
2014, 2015, 2016, 2017, 2018, 2019

360 West Magazine
Top Attorney 2018

Client Testimonials

  • When I first arrived at Sisemore Law Firm, I was very frightened and still feeling stunned that my husband of 25 years had announced that he was leaving me. I had no idea what to do or how to do it. I had reached out to a friend who gave me the phone number to Sisemore Law Firm. From the second I walked in, I was greeted warmly and made to feel safe. Justin met with me and made sure he understood my situation. Pam Wilder handled my case and kept me informed every step of the way. Never be fooled by her size. Big things come in small packages, and this was apparent in court. The opposing counsel had no idea what he was in for. Pam made sure that I felt as though I had been “heard” on every issue. She represented me better than anyone on earth could possibly have done. Her attention to detail is commendable, and so is her manner when she was speaking to me. She had a big job to do, but also had to be sensitive to my feelings as I was working through traumatic issues. Renee was also an invaluable member of our team. Renee was the person I would talk to first. She was always very reassuring and made sure all my many questions were answered. I am very thankful that my friend referred me to the Sisemore Law Firm.

    Audrey J.
  • The Sisemore Law Firm is THE firm you need in order to come out of a difficult divorce situation, on top. Pam Wilder works hard to provide the very best care & counsel for your needs. She takes time to listen to you, then she explains your options and what is worth working toward for your family’s best interest. She is indeed your best advocate for you and your family’s future.

    Renee is fabulous at answering questions and taking your needs to heart so that your case is well documented and organized. Carrie answers your calls immediately with prompt attention and care. She is your first point of contact at the Sisemore Office and she directs your questions and needs with knowledge and efficiency. Justin will put you at ease, as you will have the blessing of meeting with him first to discuss your case. He will assign your unique case to the attorney who will best provide you with the care and counsel you need. Together, The Sisemore Law Firm is the very best. You will be well cared for and at peace when you secure the excellent services of The Sisemore Law Firm. They are first-rate in working to achieve all of your family’s needs.

    Krista Miller
    "Best advocate for you and your family’s future."
  • Ms. Wilder had represented me before when with a different firm several years ago. I was so impressed with her professionalism (then) that I contacted her when I needed representation again. She is always prepared, kept me informed, she’s a valued member of your firm. I can’t possibly say enough great things about her, or how she helped me when I needed it. I’m beyond thankful for her efforts.

    Carlos Serda
    "Beyond thankful for her efforts."
  • Pam Wilder was absolutely wonderful throughout my experience. She listened and made sure she understood my concerns. She worked tirelessly to make sure that I was well represented. I am thankful that I went to Sisemore first. I was absolutely terrified, not knowing what my future held, but Ms. Wilder reassured me every step of the way.

    Mickie Jobe
    "Reassured me every step of the way."
  • From the first time I entered the office until after the decree was signed, everyone at the firm has treated me with kindness and respect. Pam Wilder worked very hard to make sure I was well represented during my divorce. She was tough on opposing counsel but kind to me. She was very patient and let me know what was happening every step of the way. I’m very glad I chose this firm to handle my divorce. Thank you, Ms. Wilder!

    Mickie Jobe
    "Tough on opposing counsel but kind to me."
  • Pam went above and beyond my expectations. She’s always prepared and has your best interest at heart. Even when everything was over and something came up that was unexpected, she was right there ready to help. If you are reading this review there is no need to search for any other family law firm. Probably the best law firm in all of DFW.

    Elizabeth Benton
    "Probably the best law firm in all of DFW."
  • Pam went above and beyond my expectations. She’s always prepared and has your best interest at heart. Even when everything was over and something came up that was unexpected, she was right there ready to help. If you are reading this review there is no need to search for any other family law firm. Probably the best law firm in all of DFW.

    Jaclyn Clark
    "Above and beyond my expectations."
  • Pam Wilder is the best attorney on the planet. 3 years ago she helped guide me through a divorce and just recently helped me acquire some documents that I just couldn’t get my hands on. Great firm and even greater attorney. Thanks, Pam!!!

    "Best attorney on the planet."
  • I’d just like to say thanks so much to Pam (and Justin) at the Sisemore Law Firm for the help, guidance and representation they provided throughout my divorce case and hearings.

    Suffering through a divorce is a difficult and trying time in one’s life and having competent attorneys who will fight for truth, justice and your rights can make all the difference.

    I would certainly recommend their law firm to anyone who finds they need divorce or family law representation. Many thanks and best wishes, Brian

    "Would certainly recommend."

Seasoned, methodical, unwavering

From the smallest detail to the big picture, when Tarrant County family law attorney Pamela Wilder handles your divorce or child custody case, she’s 100 percent invested in you. Known as an attorney who has her client’s best interests at heart, Pam stands firm through tense negotiations and fierce court battles. The seasoned legal veteran’s empathetic nature and attention to detail put her clients at ease.

According to Justin Sisemore, founder of the Sisemore Law Firm, “With Pam as your attorney, you get the best of both worlds. She is a ‘devil-is-in-the-details’ person behind the scenes but also a strategic, no-nonsense lawyer and skilled negotiator who fights hard for her clients every step of the way. Pam really pushes the envelope and is often praised by clients for exceeding their settlement and custody expectations.”

A respected Texas attorney since 2006—and since 2016 a family law attorney in Fort Worth at the Sisemore Law Firm—this divorced mom understands what her clients are going through.

Growing up, Pam’s “legal education” began over the dinner table during conversations with her attorney father. After graduating from UCLA with a BA in psychology, Pam was accepted into the University of San Diego School of Law, where she earned her juris doctor degree in 1992. While Pam initially planned to become a criminal prosecutor, her husband’s transfer to Oklahoma led to legal work for a personal injury firm and a large collection agency.

After another transfer to Texas, Pam stepped away from the law for 10 years to raise her two beautiful daughters. With her girls in school full-time and her marriage ending in divorce, Pam decided it was time to reignite her career and passed the Texas Bar in 2006 on her first attempt. She joined the Sisemore Law Firm in 2016 after a brief stint as a paralegal and several years practicing family law with other Texas law firms.

Today, the former aspiring criminal prosecutor and divorced mom enjoys helping people navigate the complexities of divorce and custody disputes. As Pam explains, “I have experienced divorce and child custody modifications personally and understand the emotions involved and the significance of the results. Going through a divorce is stressful, and having gone through it myself, I’m honored to help other people make it through that transition.”

Staying fit and spending time in the great outdoors provide the perfect counterbalance to a busy career

Working in a career where families’ futures hang in the balance can be stressful but Pam’s passion for fitness and the outdoors keeps her psyche in check. With her daughters officially out of the nest, Pam gets up early every morning to work out at the gym, where she loves lifting weights. She is also engaged to be married to a dad of two teenagers, whom the couple enjoys spending time with on weekends.